A GREAT PARENT:-
• Shows a child unconditional love.
• Does not expect the child to be the parent, and does not inflict own needs on the child at the expense of the child's needs.
• Does not subtly sabotage a child's efforts to learn, mature and excel.
• Allows a child to be less than perfect.
• Forgives mistakes, and teaches a child how to forgive him or herself. Acknowledges own mistakes and apologizes for them.
• Does not give up on a child or teen.
• Loves and accepts a child who walks a different path.
• Is not threatened by a child's independence, happiness, dreams, individuality, achievements, or occasional rebellion.
• Shows a child consistent and loving discipline.
• Is supportive, excited and interested in what the child is doing (and wants to do).
• Teaches a child how to be angry or frustrated in helpful, constructive ways.
• Teaches a child how to communicate in constructive, loving ways.
• Teaches a child how to deal with fear.
• Knows that the child's safety and well-being comes first. Does hard things if it will help the family.
• Stands up for a child. Protects the child from dangerous and harmful situations or people.
• Is willing to learn from others -- including the child.
• Teaches a child how to protect and take care of him or herself (financially, physically, emotionally).
• Sets a good example in life, love, happiness, morality, friendships and daily habits.
• Shows a spouse or partner unconditional (but not self-abusive) love -- and lets the child see it.
• Allows a child to dream big dreams.
• Takes care of self.
• Makes fun and laughter regular daily activities.
• Teaches a child how to see the lighter side of life.
• Teaches a child that it's OK to be happy, even if someone else isn't.
• Teaches a child to hope, and also to trust in him or herself.
• Keeps all promises to a child.
• Makes all the necessary (and some unnecessary) personal sacrifices.
• Teaches a child how to resolve problems, and how to celebrate triumphs.
• Praises child frequently and sincerely.
• Is proud of child, and tells child so.
• Encourages good behavior and discourages bad behavior. Listens to child's explanation, and allows child to suffer (non-hurtful) consequences.
• Is a good listener.
• Offers advice without destructive criticism.
• Discusses things with child honestly and openly. Allows child to disagree in age-appropriate ways.
• Knows when to let go of a situation that can't be resolved.
• Teaches a child how to be positive and enthusiastic.
• Knows when to let a child become an adult.
• Doesn't ever stop trying to become a better parent.
Wishing you all Happy Parenting!!!!!
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